[net.women] Why male dominance?

jackson@curium.DEC (SETH JACKSON 297-4751) (02/21/86)

Some questions for all you feminists out there (men and women alike):

You claim that:

1) The sexes are both equal

2) Throughout hundreds of years of civilzation, a male-dominated
   society has evolved

3) This situation continues to exist today, despite the efforts of
   feminist organizations

How do you account for the evolution of this male dominance? If the
sexes are in fact equal, what motivation would men have for wanting
to put women in a subservient role? Also, by what means have men
managed throught history to "keep women in their place"? I don't see
much evidence that men are threatening women with guns or physical 
violence, so why do the majority of women cooperated throughout history 
and continue to cooperate with this male-dominated society?
--
"Many a man's done terrible thing
 Just to get
 His baby 
 A shiny 
 Diamond ring"
				Seth Jackson

booter@lll-crg.ARpA (Elaine Richards) (02/23/86)

In article <1270@decwrl.DEC.COM> jackson@curium.DEC (SETH JACKSON 297-4751) writes:
>Some questions for all you feminists out there (men and women alike):
>
[the canonical questions about equality and dominance]
>How do you account for the evolution of this male dominance? If the

Anything that has 66% more upper arm strength can whomp the weaker
person in the schoolyard. Happened to me until Mom told me about "a
good swift kick".:-)

>sexes are in fact equal, what motivation would men have for wanting
>to put women in a subservient role? Also, by what means have men

Some psychologists say men are making up for moms and female schoolteachers
bossing them as youths.:-) 

Anthropologists claim that the mystery of menstruation and pregnancy
made men feel a little out of place with the Powers of the
Universe and thus they assauged their fear and un-ease via bonding rituals.
If you believe bonding rituals don't exist, visit a men's club or
stand on Wall Street and look at the uniforms men wear. Women are learning
to blend in by following the rules of the club (grey suits and non-feminine
haircuts).Read Lionel Tiger on male bonding.

When we all lived on farms, sexism was not an issue. Men and women ate and
had shelter and some clothes. With the Industrial Revolution, a trend called
"The Cult of Domesticity" began to separate the roles of men and women in
production. A woman's place was in the home and Dad went to work. What we
see with ladies wearing sneakers and grey suits is the Female March Back into
productivity. Since technology is different, rules are different and that's
why everyone is upset and confused. No big deal. Eventually, companies will
lose a lot of their masculine flavor and get into "human mode" (daycare,
relaxed communication betwixt M and F, etc.). Do I sound optimistic. I am.

>managed throught history to "keep women in their place"? I don't see

Wanna see my old paychecks?

>much evidence that men are threatening women with guns or physical 

Except when they get thrashed in the schoolyard for being "smart".
Except when they get beaten by fathers and husbands (statistical answers
are irrelevant, women do hit men, but this is NOT AS COMMON!!!)

>violence, so why do the majority of women cooperated throughout history 
>and continue to cooperate with this male-dominated society?

Survival mechanism. If you are horny enough, you'll put up with anything.


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....Tierra Del Fuego!"      -Malvina Reynolds

jeff@rtech.UUCP (Jeff Lichtman) (02/23/86)

> 
> How do you account for the evolution of this male dominance?

On the average, men have better left hooks than women do. :-(

> If the
> sexes are in fact equal, what motivation would men have for wanting
> to put women in a subservient role?

The simple-minded ethic that "if you have less, then I have more."

> Also, by what means have men
> managed throughout history to "keep women in their place"? I don't see
> much evidence that men are threatening women with guns or physical 
> violence, so why do the majority of women cooperated throughout history 
> and continue to cooperate with this male-dominated society?
> --
> 				Seth Jackson

You've got to be kidding.  Have you ever heard of rape and wife-beating?
Have you ever read what Freud said about women?  Have you ever seen the
way women are portrayed in popular entertainment?

There are so many examples that it would be impossible to list them all.
Sexism is part of the air that we breathe.
-- 
Jeff Lichtman at rtech (Relational Technology, Inc.)
"Saints should always be judged guilty until they are proved innocent..."

{amdahl, sun}!rtech!jeff
{ucbvax, decvax}!mtxinu!rtech!jeff

amc@mhuxd.UUCP (Andy Cohill) (02/25/86)

> > 
> > How do you account for the evolution of this male dominance?
> > 				Seth Jackson
> 
> You've got to be kidding. Have you ever read what Freud said 
> about women? 

Wait a minute. Freud was male, if I recollect correctly. You trust a
low-life, no-good, sleaze-ball male to make judgements about women????

Best regards,
Andy Cohill
ihnp4!mhuxd!amc

gadfly@ihuxn.UUCP (Gadfly) (02/25/86)

--
> Some questions for all you feminists out there (men and women alike):
>
> [feminists claim that the sexes are equal]...
> 
> How do you account for the evolution of this male dominance? If the
> sexes are in fact equal, what motivation would men have for wanting
> to put women in a subservient role? Also, by what means have men
> managed throught history to "keep women in their place"? I don't see
> much evidence that men are threatening women with guns or physical 
> violence, so why do the majority of women cooperated throughout history 
> and continue to cooperate with this male-dominated society?
> 
> 				Seth Jackson

What choice do they have?  Honestly, Seth, you are grasping at straws.
And even if your simplistic analysis were true, how would that justify
the situation?  After all, humans have lived under tyrannical monarchs
for thousands of years.  Many do even today.  Does that make it right?
Why would men want to put women in a subservient role?  Heck, men
usually want to put other *men* in a subservient role.

Your error, Seth, is in the assertion that feminists believe that
the men and women are, or even started off, "equal".  The obvious
biological differences led to obvious differences in social roles.
The--well I should say *A*--feminist position is that many of these
role differences are no longer necessary, if they indeed ever were.
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rb@ccivax.UUCP (rex ballard) (02/27/86)

Read this twice, once for the :-) and once for the possibility of truth.

In article <1270@decwrl.DEC.COM> jackson@curium.DEC (SETH JACKSON 297-4751) writes:
>Some questions for all you feminists out there (men and women alike):
>You claim that:
>1) The sexes are both equal
	Wrong, some women are superior to some men!
>2) Throughout hundreds of years of civilzation, a male-dominated
>   society has evolved
	Society wouldn't have evolved at all if women hadn't used men's
	vulnerability to sex to make them provide for the children
	(allowing WOMEN to train children to higher levels, because
	 men lacked the stamina and patience for such work).
>3) This situation continues to exist today, despite the efforts of
>   feminist organizations
	Women are discovering that their skills in "managing" children,
	negotiating with merchants..., is a valuable commodity in the
	business world!  Most women aren't prepared for modern motherhood
	(any universities offer degrees in mothering? :-), but once they
	have mastered the art, they are ready for some rewarding work :-).
	Some women are smart, they skip motherhood and go directly to
	work in a rewarding career :-)
>How do you account for the evolution of this male dominance?
	Just because a man can "run away from home" for a few
	hours a day doesn't mean he's the boss.
>If the sexes are in fact equal, what motivation would men have for wanting
>to put women in a subservient role?
	Women know that by letting the male FEEL superior, they'll fight
	less, and get more done.
>Also, by what means have men managed throught history to
>"keep women in their place"?
	Some women get trapped into feeling inferior by jerks who don't
	know how to appreciate them, including fathers, husbands and even
	sons.
>I don't see much evidence that men are threatening women with guns or physical 
>violence,
	No, just the family paycheck.
>so why do the majority of women cooperated throughout history 
	The illusion was easy to maintain (still is, if men appreciate it).
>and continue to cooperate with this male-dominated society?
	Co-operate yes, but now they are expecting a little more
	consideration, recognition, and pay for their TRUE role as the
	glue that holds this society together.  Without them, men
	would have warred themselves to extinction by now.

My boss is a women, the best man for the job.

From: a male feminist :-)

jackson@curium.DEC (SETH JACKSON 297-4751) (02/28/86)

>> Some questions for all you feminists out there (men and women alike):
>>
>> [feminists claim that the sexes are equal]...
>> 
>> How do you account for the evolution of this male dominance? If the
>> sexes are in fact equal, what motivation would men have for wanting
>> to put women in a subservient role? Also, by what means have men
>> managed throught history to "keep women in their place"? I don't see
>> much evidence that men are threatening women with guns or physical 
>> violence, so why do the majority of women cooperated throughout history 
>> and continue to cooperate with this male-dominated society?
>> 
>> 				Seth Jackson

>What choice do they have?  Honestly, Seth, you are grasping at straws.
>And even if your simplistic analysis were true, how would that justify
>the situation?  

Grasping at straws? Analysis?? Justification??? What on Earth are you
talking about? I've done nothing more than ask questions.

>	After all, humans have lived under tyrannical monarchs
>for thousands of years.  Many do even today.  Does that make it right?
>Why would men want to put women in a subservient role?  Heck, men
>usually want to put other *men* in a subservient role.
>
>Your error, Seth, is in the assertion that feminists believe that

There were no assertions made in the above posting. Only questions. 

>the men and women are, or even started off, "equal".  The obvious
>biological differences led to obvious differences in social roles.
>The--well I should say *A*--feminist position is that many of these
>role differences are no longer necessary, if they indeed ever were.

I think it's a safe (or at least a reasonable) assumption that biological
differences in some way led to the evolution of different social roles.
It's also reasonable to assume that the process of evolution works the
same way in regard to traditions, customs, and social roles as it does for
the evolution of species: over time, society adopts those roles customs 
that contibute to its ability to function smoothly and to perpetuate itself, 
and it discards those customs that detract from its ability to do so. Thus,
the social roles that survive over time are those that meet some particular 
needs of society. Therefore, the question is:

1) What needs of society were met by allowing this so-called "male-dominant" 
role to evolve as the widely accepted standard? 

2) What changes, if any, have occurred to make these roles obsolete?
--
"Writing 'what for?' across the morning sky..."

				Seth Jackson

hrs@homxb.UUCP (H.SILBIGER) (03/01/86)

I am really surprised to read Seth Jackson's implication that
males hould be dominant because otherwise they would not
have evolved as dominant through history!

There are some historical reasons why males have become
dominantin most cultures.  These probably are their greater
physical strength and the fact that they do not bear their
young.

In the current era, in societies where physical strength is not
the criterion for survival, but mental ability is more important,
equality between men and women is (slowly) coming about.

What is a more interesting question, although academic as far
as the equality issue is concerned, is why we have such extreme
sexual diphormism in humans.  It is hard to think of any mammal
species where it is as great.

Herman Silbiger ihnp4!homxb!hrs

aleksand@umcp-cs.UUCP (Richard Aleksandr) (03/02/86)

In article <439@ccivax.UUCP> rb@ccivax.UUCP (What's in a name ?) writes:

>	Wrong, some women are superior to some men!
>>2) Throughout hundreds of years of civilzation, a male-dominated
>>   society has evolved
>	Society wouldn't have evolved at all if women hadn't used men's
>	vulnerability to sex to make them provide for the children
>	(allowing WOMEN to train children to higher levels, because
>	 men lacked the stamina and patience for such work).

etc., etc., etc.

>
>My boss is a women, the best man for the job.
>
>From: a male feminist :-)

Hey shithead! You're not a male feminist, you're an idiot whatever the hell
sex you are. Don't lump yourself together with other men. The men out here
don't get down on their hands and knees and ask their wife to strap on the
10" dildo, as I have no doubt that you do. While your woman is getting into
the fudge-packing and you're squealing like a pig in your high pitched voice,
and yelling 'Shut up, you worthless wimp, or you're going to lick the dildo
again!', there are men out here who go through life with no such insecurities
as you seem to have- and women also.
	
You'd better stick to perfecting your grunting and sucking technique and
quit posting sickening atricles, slime.
						B. Dog

phil@amdcad.UUCP (Phil Ngai) (03/03/86)

In article <1270@decwrl.DEC.COM> jackson@curium.DEC (SETH JACKSON 297-4751) writes:
>How do you account for the evolution of this male dominance? If the
>sexes are in fact equal, what motivation would men have for wanting
>to put women in a subservient role?

The same motivations that caused them to import blacks to work as slaves.
How can you help but profit by forcing someone else to do your bidding?

> Also, by what means have men
>managed throught history to "keep women in their place"? I don't see
>much evidence that men are threatening women with guns or physical 
>violence, so why do the majority of women cooperated throughout history 
>and continue to cooperate with this male-dominated society?

How about encouraging girls to go into low paying professions like
teaching and nursing? Discouraging them from showing their
intelligence, and keeping them away from math? Indoctrinating them
with the idea that marriage is more important than career? Failing
to provide child-care so they can work after having a child?

(Am I starting to sound like Cheryl yet?)
-- 
 NASA employee: "These are REAL flight simulators!"

 Phil Ngai +1 408 749 5720
 UUCP: {ucbvax,decwrl,ihnp4,allegra}!amdcad!phil
 ARPA: amdcad!phil@decwrl.dec.com

andrews@ubc-cs.UUCP (Jamie Andrews) (03/03/86)

In article <1290@homxb.UUCP> hrs@homxb.UUCP (H.SILBIGER) writes:
>There are some historical reasons why males have become
>dominantin most cultures.  These probably are their greater
>physical strength and the fact that they do not bear their
>young.
     A related theory is that, around the time of the advent of
written history, warrior cultures became dominant by conquering
other cultures by physical force.  Although some of these cultures
(e.g. the Celtic) had strong female figures, most of them had the
male warriors (who were not as bound to the home as women were in
most early societies) as leaders.
     This theory thus puts forward the opinion that men are not
"naturally" dominant, but that some cultures in which they did
happen to be dominant became successful by crushing other cultures.

>What is a more interesting question, although academic as far
>as the equality issue is concerned, is why we have such extreme
>sexual diphormism in humans.  It is hard to think of any mammal
>species where it is as great.
     Could you please explain what "diphormism" is?  Is it a typo
for "dimorphism", and even if so, could you please expand on what
you mean?

--Jamie.
...!ihnp4!alberta!ubc-vision!ubc-cs!andrews
"Look at this tangle of thorns"

nancy@sdcc3.UUCP (Nancy ) (03/03/86)

(in response to historical male dominance proving male superiority)
Yes, Seth, and blacks should be slaves,
Jews should be burned,
Christians should be fed to lions,
Japanese should be put in internment camps,
etc.  (have I said enough)

Please, Seth, tell me I misunderstood you. 
-- 
ucbvax!sdcsvax!sdcc3!nancy

kathy@tolerant.UUCP (Kathy Kister) (03/05/86)

> > > 
> > > How do you account for the evolution of this male dominance?
> > > 				Seth Jackson
> > 
>It doesn't help matters that men believe that only male offspring can carry
on the family blood line and that the female don't count.  I would have thought
that everyone was past this, but I am constantly surprised by the number of
idiots (particularly, my fater-in-law) who believe this.  Generally, only
the male carries the family name and is the only way to insure "immorality".
 

monroe@andromeda.UUCP (Mary Monroe) (03/05/86)

In article <12@umcp-cs.UUCP>, aleksand@umcp-cs.UUCP (Richard Aleksandr) writes:
> Hey shithead! You're not a male feminist, you're an idiot whatever the hell
> 						B. Dog
etc,etc,etc.....


       Is this guy for real, or what ?  In the words of Bugs Bunny-
       "What a maroon"! Mr. Dog, if it wasn't so sad, I'd be laughing.

                                                            
ps-I know that responding just encourages this, but I just couldn't help it.

jsp@unccvax.UUCP (03/05/86)

> --
> > Some questions for all you feminists out there (men and women alike):
> >
> > [feminists claim that the sexes are equal]...
> > 
> > How do you account for the evolution of this male dominance? If the
> > sexes are in fact equal, what motivation would men have for wanting
> > to put women in a subservient role? Also, by what means have men
> > managed throught history to "keep women in their place"? I don't see
> > much evidence that men are threatening women with guns or physical 
> > violence, so why do the majority of women cooperated throughout history 
> > and continue to cooperate with this male-dominated society?
> > 

The 'roles' of the sexes have of necessity, been dictated by the means of
survival of the era.  

omo@mcnc.UUCP (03/05/86)

> >Some questions for all you feminists out there (men and women alike):
> >You claim that:
> > Throughout hundreds of years of civilzation, a male-dominated
> >society has evolved

> >How do you account for the evolution of this male dominance? 
> >Also, by what means have men
> >managed throught history to "keep women in their place"? 
> >I don't see
> >much evidence that men are threatening women with guns or physical 
> >violence, so why do the majority of women cooperated throughout history 
> >and continue to cooperate with this male-dominated society?

>There are some historical reasons why males have become
>dominant in most cultures.  These probably are their greater
>physical strength and the fact that they do not bear their
>young.

Yes.  Perhaps this will give everyone a better understanding of
how primitive conditions interact with male/female biology to
produce the subservience of women:
			_________________
Excerpted without permission from Science, Vol 226, No 4676 (Nov 84):

The Population Factor in Africa's Development Dilemma, Fred T. Sai

...The status of women is a matter of great concern to Africa.
Perhaps the rural African woman is the most underprivileged of
all human beings.  Various social roles, cultural practices and
the biological tasks imposed by fertility have combined to keep
the average rural African woman close to a beast of burden...

...Maternal mortality rates are also very high:  two to six deaths
per 1,000 live births---that is, 100 to 500 times the western
European rates.  Thus the high population growth rates of Africa
result from high fertility and relatively high mortality and are
therefore achieved at a very high price in the lives and health
of African women.  By the time women complete their families, 50%
of their cohort is dead....

...The usual African fertility pattern is for childbearing to
start as soon as it is biologically possible and stop at menopause.
The total fertility rate per woman is between four and eight births,
but mostly between six and eight.  This very high fertility means
the African woman spends between 18 and 20 years of her adult
life in childbearing (that is, the interval between the first live
birth and the last one), in comparison with 3 to 5 years for many
more advanced countries.  

...most women have traditionally handled most of the family
food crop production and have therefore played a major role
in agriculture...

(My favorite line:)
...Her potential for other pursuits is therefore considerably 
reduced....
		-------End of Article------

The suggestion that males are dominant because women fear rape
and beating is probably somewhat of a simplification of the 
situation in primitive cultures, where it was not so much the threat 
of violence from the immediately `dominating' males (mate, brother, 
father, etc), but the threat of violence from a physically hostile
environment, which included males.  The biggest threat probably
came from tribal warefare.  Another threat would be predators. 
In an effort to survive, each tribe naturally depended upon their
most physically strong (ie, males, not only because of raw physical
power, but because they weren't pregnant and nursing babies all of 
the time) members to defend the community against these threats.
This made these folks *very* valuable.  Oh, sure, women had babies
and grew a lot of food, but that's a long-term asset, and humans
are incorrigibly short-term planners.  Under these circumstances,
I believe *I* would have seen males as more `valuable' than myself.
After all, what good is being able to produce babies (most of which
are dead before they reach the age of 2, anyway) and grow food, if
the neighbors are likely to drop in and slaughter us all tomorrow 
night?  My guess is that *women became subservient* (rather than 
men becoming dominant) in order to survive, and also developed 
conniving, manipulative, sexually competitive behaviors in order
to attract and keep males that would protect them and their young.

rdh@sun.uucp (Robert Hartman) (03/05/86)

In article <12@umcp-cs.UUCP> aleksand@maryland.UUCP (Richard aleksandr) writes:
>
>Hey shithead! ...
> { bunch of obnoxious crap }
>quit posting sickening atricles, slime.
>						B. Dog

aleksand: 
	1. 	take your own advice 
	2.	go see a shrink.  you need one.
	3.	thank god for the "kill" file.  it was made for articles
		like yours.  needless to say that few people will ever
		read your postings again. 

wfi@rti-sel.UUCP (03/05/86)

In article <12@umcp-cs.UUCP> aleksand@maryland.UUCP (Richard aleksandr) writes:

>Hey shithead! You're not a male feminist, you're an idiot whatever the hell
>sex you are. Don't lump yourself together with other men. ... [a lot
>of other offensive garbage]

Hey, Bird Dog! If you're real, real lucky, one of these days you just
might GROW UP. When (and if) you do, you're going to realize what being 
a REAL man is all about. And what being a human being is all about. When 
you're sitting there cleaning the Clearasil and old copies of Playboy with 
the pages stuck together out of your closet, remember these little juvenile 
exchanges. And feel properly embarrassed for your youthful idiocy.

                          -- Toodles, Bill Ingogly

jackson@11367.DEC (SETH JACKSON 297-4751) (03/06/86)

>(in response to historical male dominance proving male superiority)
>Yes, Seth, and blacks should be slaves,
>Jews should be burned,
Christians should be fed to lions,
>Japanese should be put in internment camps,
>etc.  (have I said enough)
> 
>Please, Seth, tell me I misunderstood you. 

OK, you misunderstood me. Nowhere in my posting did I attempt to prove
male superiority or anything else. If you'll reread, you'll note that
I simply raised some questions about why things are the way they are.

The questions were raised in response to recent postings by women who
expressed a great deal of hostility toward men, suggesting that men are
involved in some kind of evil conspiracy against them. I'm simply
trying to point out that this is not the case.

My point is that the traditional gender roles evolved out of
some need of society, and was mutually agreed upon by men and women
at some point in time, as this arrangement allowed for a smoothly
functioning society. 

Today, many women are attempting to change the traditional gender roles.
Given that people are comfortable with the old way, it is to be expected 
that many people would fear and resist change. Rather than attempting to
force change through self-righteous anger, it would be far more 
productive to understand why things are they way they are, and to 
convince people that the new way can work better for everybody than the 
old way. If you can't convince people of that, than perhaps change
isn't such a good idea after all.
--
"Without love in the dream it'll never come true"

					Seth Jackson

jeff@rtech.UUCP (Jeff Lichtman) (03/06/86)

> 
> Hey shithead! You're not a male feminist, you're an idiot whatever the hell
> sex you are. Don't lump yourself together with other men. The men out here
> don't get down on their hands and knees and ask their wife to strap on the
> 10" dildo, as I have no doubt that you do. While your woman is getting into
> the fudge-packing and you're squealing like a pig in your high pitched voice,
> and yelling 'Shut up, you worthless wimp, or you're going to lick the dildo
> again!', there are men out here who go through life with no such insecurities
> as you seem to have- and women also.
> 	
> You'd better stick to perfecting your grunting and sucking technique and
> quit posting sickening atricles, slime.
> 						B. Dog

There are all kinds of insults I could heap on B. Dog, but I don't want to
start another pointless flame contest.  I will just make the following
suggestion:

	Either learn to express yourself in a civil manner, or get out.
-- 
Jeff Lichtman at rtech (Relational Technology, Inc.)
"Saints should always be judged guilty until they are proved innocent..."

{amdahl, sun}!rtech!jeff
{ucbvax, decvax}!mtxinu!rtech!jeff

kathy@tolerant.UUCP (Kathy Kister) (03/07/86)

> > > > 
> > > > How do you account for the evolution of this male dominance?
> > > > 				Seth Jackson
> > > 
> >It doesn't help matters that men believe that only male offspring can carry
> on the family blood line and that the female don't count.  I would have thought
> that everyone was past this, but I am constantly surprised by the number of
> idiots (particularly, my fater-in-law) who believe this.  Generally, only
> the male carries the family name and is the only way to insure "immorality".
 
Well, I really meant immortality, and you know it.  But it was good for a laugh,
wouldn't you agree?
:wq
>  

terry@nrcvax.UUCP (Terry Grevstad) (03/08/86)

jackson@11367.DEC (SETH JACKSON 297-4751) says:
>My point is that the traditional gender roles evolved out of
>some need of society, and was mutually agreed upon by men and women
>at some point in time, as this arrangement allowed for a smoothly
>functioning society. 

I will agree with this statement.  Those "traditional gender roles"
are now in the process of changing, and both men and women are getting
bent out of shape because of it.  

But, yes, the traditional roles _did_ provide for the needs of
society, and not too long ago either.  If you go back even 100-150 years,
you would find a predominately agrarian society where families stayed
together in a local area, on a farm.  The man tilled the fields,
herded the cattle/sheep/what-have-you, made sure house/barn/etc was in
good repair and the like.  The woman helped till the fields when
necessary, often took sole responsibility for livestock (particularly
chickens/sheep/goats), raised a garden, baked bread, hand-washed all
laundry, made all the clothes, did all the housework sans modern 
appliances.  The children helped out as age, size and propensity indicated.  
ALL INDIVIDUALS WERE MADE TO FEEL NEEDED AND WORTHWHILE!

However, come the turn of the century/industrial revolution/whatever
people started going to work in factories (men, women and children).
Men went to work more because if they lived in the city there were no
fields to till.  They had more time to work.  Women didn't because the
laundry still had to be done by hand, the bread still was baked at
home, and the budding home appliance industry was out of the average
price range.  Therefore, the woman still had a LOT of work to do at
home.

But, gradually, home appliances became relatively easy to acquire,
and doing housework became relatively easy.  Laundry--instead of a
back-breaking, all-day job--became a matter of throwing the clothes
in the washer, watching your favorite soap on TV, throwing the clothes
in the dryer, watching your favorite soap on TV, and folding the
clothes.  No challenge, no effort, no feeling of satisfaction in a job
well done because you really didn't do anything.

Needless to say, women began to look around for more to do.  Hence the
beginning of the "changing traditional gender roles".  And I don't
blame anybody for it, but if I had to stay home all day long with only
housework (2 hours max) facing me, I'd go stark raving mad.
Consequently, I work.  I enjoy my work.  It gives me the satisfaction
of a job well done.  I think a lot of women are looking for that
satisfaction, and don't feel they get it at home.

DISCLAIMER:  This is, of course, very simplistic and is only my
assessment of the current state of "traditional gender roles".  As
I've stated before on this net, "I may be wrong.  I've been wrong
before, and I certainly expect to be wrong again at some point in
time."

Bye!

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ladkin@kestrel.ARPA (Peter Ladkin) (03/08/86)

In article <1530@decwrl.DEC.COM>, jackson@11367.DEC (SETH JACKSON 297-4751) writes:
> [...] Nowhere in my posting did I attempt to prove
> male superiority or anything else. If you'll reread, you'll note that
> I simply raised some questions about why things are the way they are.

I think people were responding to implicit assumptions in your 
questions.
For example, *have you stopped beating your wife yet?* is a
question, but there is propositional content to it. 
Yours had much propositional content, and the replies you
have had so far seem to address that content quite well.

Peter Ladkin

flackc@stolaf.UUCP (Chap Flack) (03/08/86)

> It doesn't help matters that men believe that only male offspring can carry
> on the family blood line and that the female don't count.  I would have thought
> that everyone was past this, but I am constantly surprised by the number of
> idiots (particularly, my fater-in-law) who believe this.  Generally, only
> the male carries the family name and is the only way to insure "immorality".
                                                                  ^--^--^--^

Was that intentional?  :-)
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mat@mtx5a.UUCP (m.terribile) (03/09/86)

	If a culture is to survive when pressured by adjacent cultures, it must
respond, and respond with aggression.  This aggression may take the form of
open warfare of or more subtle hostility, but it nonetheless represents means
of coercion.

	If a significant amount of a societies effort was expended in this
fashion, and if women were tied up bearing and caring for children, trying
to overwhelm the rather bad infant mortality odds, it seems likely that most
of the people who would be out patrolling, fighting, bargaining, etc., would
be men, who would grow more skilled in it; they would even be especially
trained for it.  In fact, we see this happen in many less developed cultures.

	If men grew more skillful at coercion than women, they might come to
predominate in the leadership of the society.

	Anyone have a simpler explanation?
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ingrid@pilchuckDataio.UUCP (the Real Swede) (03/11/86)

> In article <439@ccivax.UUCP> rb@ccivax.UUCP (What's in a name ?) writes:
> 
> etc., etc., etc.
> 
> >My boss is a women, the best man for the job.
> >
> >From: a male feminist :-)
> 
> Hey shithead! You're not a male feminist, you're an idiot whatever the hell
> sex you are. Don't lump yourself together with other men. The men out here
> don't get down on their hands and knees and ask their wife to strap on the
> 10" dildo
...
> 						B. Dog

*** REPLACE THIS LINE WITH YOUR FLABERGASTED MESSAGE ***

Who the hell are you, to employ such foul language on a public system!
I've seen some flames in my time, but this crap takes the cake. If you don't
have the decency or intelligence to rotate or censor your postings, LEAVE
THEM AT HOME, WEIRDO!!!

jeffw@midas.UUCP (Jeff Winslow) (03/13/86)

In article <1235@mtx5a.UUCP> mat@mtx5a.UUCP (m.terribile) writes:
>
>	If a culture is to survive when pressured by adjacent cultures, it must
>respond, and respond with aggression.  This aggression may take the form of
>open warfare of or more subtle hostility, but it nonetheless represents means
>of coercion.
>
>	If a significant amount of a societies effort was expended in this
>fashion, and if women were tied up bearing and caring for children, trying
>to overwhelm the rather bad infant mortality odds, it seems likely that most
>of the people who would be out patrolling, fighting, bargaining, etc., would
>be men, who would grow more skilled in it; they would even be especially
>trained for it.  In fact, we see this happen in many less developed cultures.
>
>	If men grew more skillful at coercion than women, they might come to
>predominate in the leadership of the society.

So, perhaps this dominance arose when the human population density finally
got high enough that pressure from adjacent cultures was a common occurrence?
And the time when females were dominant was before this? Sounds reasonable.

And what will happen if the "global village" ever becomes reality? Will
females dominate again? 

Horrors! Quick, Watson, the bazookas!!   :-)

					Jeff Winslow

nazgul@apollo.uucp (Kee Hinckley) (03/14/86)

In article <1235@mtx5a.UUCP> mat@mtx5a.UUCP (m.terribile) writes:
> 
> 	If a culture is to survive when pressured by adjacent cultures, it must
> respond, and respond with aggression.  This aggression may take the form of
> open warfare of or more subtle hostility, but it nonetheless represents means
> of coercion.
...

Hmmm.  There have been some cultures that were very non-aggressive.  The
Hopi come to mind, but I may be wrong.  Does anyone offhand know what the
status of women in such cultures is?  My recollection is that women do
indeed have much more equal status.

                                            -kee

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robert@fear.UUCP (Robert Plamondon) (03/17/86)

In article <1235@mtx5a.UUCP> mat@mtx5a.UUCP (m.terribile) writes:
> 
> If a culture is to survive when pressured by adjacent cultures, it must
> respond, and respond with aggression.  This aggression may take the form of
> open warfare of or more subtle hostility, but it nonetheless represents
> means of coercion.
> ...

Look all the way back to the social organization of upper primates,
such as gorillas.  Gorillas suffer from high infant mortality just as
primitive human cultures do, and if a mother dies, her child will
almost certainly die as well.  In such a situation, it's clear that
you'd rather have the males doing the life-threatening work (such as
driving off big cats), since you lose only one group member if a male
dies, but at least two if a mother dies.

In human cultures, the same situations applied. If the women didn't
have lots of kids, the population would dwindle. If the women took up
dangerous professions, such as soldiering or seafaring, it would put
their kids at risk, or increase the chances that they wouldn't have
kids, and the population would dwindle.

While the root reason for all this is that men were ultimately more
expendable, it also worked out that the men who went trading,
raiding, or soldiering became more powerful than the people who
stayed at home.
-- 

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jcp@osiris.UUCP (Jody Patilla) (03/19/86)

> > 	If a culture is to survive when pressured by adjacent cultures, it must
> > respond, and respond with aggression.  This aggression may take the form of
> > open warfare of or more subtle hostility, but it nonetheless represents means
> > of coercion.
> 
> Hmmm.  There have been some cultures that were very non-aggressive.  The
> Hopi come to mind, but I may be wrong.  Does anyone offhand know what the
> status of women in such cultures is?  My recollection is that women do
> indeed have much more equal status.
> 

	The Hopi were/are a matriarchial society. Several generations of
women in the same family live together and bring in husbands - men marry
out into other women's groupings.

-- 
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If you pick nits, you have to eat them. It's the polite thing to do.

mat@mtx5a.UUCP (m.terribile) (03/20/86)

> In article <1235@mtx5a.UUCP> mat@mtx5a.UUCP (m.terribile) writes:
> >
> >	If a culture is to survive when pressured by adjacent cultures, it must
> >respond, and respond with aggression.  This aggression may take the form of
> >open warfare of or more subtle hostility, but it nonetheless represents means
> >of coercion.
> >
. . .
> >	If men grew more skillful at coercion than women, they might come to
> >predominate in the leadership of the society.
> 
> So, perhaps this dominance arose when the human population density finally
> got high enough that pressure from adjacent cultures was a common occurrence?
> And the time when females were dominant was before this? Sounds reasonable.
> 
> And what will happen if the "global village" ever becomes reality? Will
> females dominate again? 
> 
> Horrors! Quick, Watson, the bazookas!!   :-)
> 
> 					Jeff Winslow

My suspicion is that before competition between other clans/tribes/tribal
nations became a significant factor, competition from the environment began
the process.  Note, however, that in the frontierlands of this country,
where the environment was the major competition, very often women had
(locally) as much authority as men ... there was too much to do to spend
energy and time governing or dominating.  And I suspect that, apart from
the (admittedly considerable) asymmetries, of childbearing and child-rearing,
in very young societies, there was not a major distinction between the
authority of men and the authority of women.
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polard@suntek.UUCP (Henry Polard) (03/25/86)

In article <714@osiris.UUCP> jcp@osiris.UUCP (Jody Patilla) writes:
>	The Hopi were/are a matriarchial society. Several generations of
>women in the same family live together and bring in husbands - men marry
>out into other women's groupings.
The Hopi, as well as several extemely patriarchial societies 
(such as the ancient Hebrews) are MATRILINEAL.
It seems to me also that in most such societies, women are not oppressed
as much as in most patrilineal societies.
In MATRIARCHIES, women hold most of the power.  I know of no well-documented
matriarchies.  The Hopi, according to SUN CHIEF and other books
I have read, are run by the men for the most part.
Could someone provide references about any true matriarchies?  Thanks.
>If you pick nits, you have to eat them. It's the polite thing to do.
Munch.  Say, I bet these things'd be great in a beer batter...
-- 
Henry Polard (You bring the flames, I'll bring the marshmallows.)
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alan@sdcrdcf.UUCP (Alan Algustyniak) (03/28/86)

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alan@sdcrdcf.UUCP (Alan Algustyniak) (03/28/86)

<Well, here i go, walking on eggs again...>

I'm reporting on 2 ideas that i just read about, concerning why, in
prehistoric times, men were the bread-winners and women raised the
children.  I'm sure that the enlightened, open-minded community which
contributes to this newsgroup will treat these ideas on their merits.{

These ideas from 2 anthropologists were recently reported in a magazine
article[1].

1.) Women in early big-game hunting societies did not get the chance
    to hunt because of menstrual dysfunctions...If early woman joined
    the hunts often enough, it would have endangered her reproductive
    potential....There may indeed have been some societies where women
    hunted, and because of it these societies did not survive. "Those
    societies where women did not go out and hunt are the ones that
    reproduced and survived."

    [Women's] role as child bearer and rearer was more important to
    the band than any of her desires to run after mammoths. "Men,"
    Graham says,"are[sic] much more expendable than women." They
    could be killed or maimed on a hunt, and the band would still survive.

2.)  DeRios thinks that the reproductive odors a woman[sic] emits may
     have been what excluded them from hunts. Animals..."would either 
     have fled or attacked" a band that included a woman.

----------

I'm not very interested in the topic personnaly, and have not thought much
about it, so my personal opinion isn't worth the cost of transmission.

	Al Algustyniak

[1] "But, Oog, She Throws Like a Girl", Insight magazine, 10 Feb, 1986.

nazgul@apollo.uucp (Kee Hinckley) (03/29/86)

In article <145@suntek.UUCP> polard@suntek.UUCP (Henry polard) writes:
> In article <714@osiris.UUCP> jcp@osiris.UUCP (Jody Patilla) writes:
> >	The Hopi were/are a matriarchial society. Several generations of
> >women in the same family live together and bring in husbands - men marry
> >out into other women's groupings.
> The Hopi, as well as several extemely patriarchial societies 
> (such as the ancient Hebrews) are MATRILINEAL.
...
> In MATRIARCHIES, women hold most of the power.  I know of no well-documented
> matriarchies.  The Hopi, according to SUN CHIEF and other books
...
> Could someone provide references about any true matriarchies?  Thanks.

When I get home (if I get home?) I will try and remember to look through my
notes, but I believe you are correct.  I seem to remember that people have
tried, but never found a society that was truely matriarchal.

As a bizarre aside this reminds me of a paper I wrote.  If you want a really
strange society, consider Anne McCaffrey's Pern.  There are three different
methods of descent, depending on whether you belong to a Guild, one of the
landowner holds, or to a dragon hold.  (I may have the terminology wrong).
The dragon holds are patriarchal, but the passage of power is matrilineal through
the dragons!

                                                    -kee

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