moiram@tektronix.UUCP (Moira Mallison ) (04/12/84)
Dieting is very seductive...there is a prescribed formula for attaining the goal, one can generally muster support (if not admiration and/or envy) for the activity from friends. BUT, the truth of the matter is that only .5 to 2% (depending on where the statistics come from) of folks who start a diet lose all the weight they want to lose AND KEEP IT OFF. A cycle describing the psychological aspects of dieting: 1. negative emotions (low self-esteem, etc) leading to 2. start of diet and high hopes (pride, energy, self-control) 3. boredom...'cheating'... 4. goto 1. A cycle describing the physiological aspects of dieting: 1. diet without exercise 2. induced starvation state, which kicks in the survival instincts (starvation defenses) 3. metabolism SLOWS (to conserve energy in case this famine should last) 4. setpoint rises (the set point is the weight your body seeks to maintain) 5. feel hungrier/tired 6. body conserves energy 7. body burns substances in following order: protein, lean muscle tissue, and finally fat. 8. discouragement sets in 9. eating not in accordance with diet 10. and we're back where we started, except for the extra 5 lbs from the out-of-control binging associated with step 9, and the fact that the metabolism is slower, and the set point is higher. This seems to sum up the 'state-of-the-art' thinking in the eating disorder known as compulsive overeating. DIETS DONT WORK. There are two books I would offer as resources: FIT OR FAT by Covert Bailey - what does work is aerobic exercise. At the same time it burns fat, it raises the metabolism and the metabolism stays raised for about 24 hours. DIETS DONT WORK by Bob Schwartz - I admit to being somewhat prejudiced about this book. Bob & I worked together in the 'human potential movement' about 6 years ago, so I know we come from a similar 'ground of being'. A couple of interesting points: Bob has owned and managed a chain of health spas for several years. His tried and true method for dealing with the patrons who want to GAIN weight(arghhh!) is to alternate between a weight loss diet and regular diet. They always gain weight. (hmmm). I used Bobs ideas about paying attention to when I wanted to eat, and what and how much I really wanted, for several weeks and it was the most stress-free period of weight-loss I've ever experienced. I lived life as a normal person, going out to eat, attended a number of parties, etc. Bottom line, it's a question of telling the truth about how hungry I am, what I want to eat, and how much I want to eat to satisfy the physical hunger (and to take care of the psychological hunger another way). It's not easy, by any means. It requires vigilance and a willingness to be honest with myself. After the first 10 - 15 pounds came off I found that people had this expectation of how I should behave because I was dieting ( I must have been: I was losing weight.) I dont have any glowing testimonials. I only have my own conviction that come from dealing with this situation for twenty years. ---Moira Mallison Tektronix, Beaverton, OR