[net.social] Brook Sheilds & her"dates" and womans preferances

hemanth@amdcad.UUCP (Hemanth Kanekal) (12/12/84)

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 It was the night of 7th December, on Tonight show, 
 and the host was Joan Rivers. The guests? --
 Brook Sheilds, Dr. Ruth Westheimer, (I hope I spelled
 the names correctly) and two others that I don't remember.

 Well, a question was put to Dr. Ruth: What do you think
 Ms. Sheilds do about her not having a crush on anybody
 yet? -- a fact that Ms. Sheilds admitted during the show.

 Dr. Ruth: She should'nt try to force herself into one.

 Reasonable answer. I have a feeling that Ms. Sheilds will
 have a tough time to get a crush on anybody at all! even
 if she does not force herself... Why? 

 The reason is that the person who would
 date her would not treat her as he (assuming Ms. Sheilds is
 straight) would treat any other date of his. Why? Offcourse,
 she is Ms. Sheilds!!. This is assuming that women prefer to
 go after guys that treat women obnoxiously. The previous
 statement is a kind of conclusion from the garbage on the net
 about preferences of women. He would probably treat Ms. Sheilds
 very nicely (assuming he is a decent guy , maybe wrong assumption)
 so that she would never get to respect him since he cannot
 put her down from the pedestal!!.

 On the other hand ( again from the net.discussion.discussion.dis....)
 if she did find a guy who would treat her in a derogatory manner
 at least if not all the time , some time, then the relation
 is liabel to go sour, since she would have the trauma of feeling
 that she has lost "it" whatever "it" is in a woman's lingo.

It is possible that several theories may be tested out if one
merely watches and sees how she is going to turn out in her life,
Anybody interested?

{ On the other hand if this guy is really *MEAN* ...
 OOOhhh! BOYY! What a feeling, for Ms. Sheilds!!! }

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chabot@amber.DEC (L 'S' Chabot) (12/13/84)

amdcad!hemanth  =  >
> He would probably treat Ms. Sheilds  very nicely ...  so that she would never
> get to respect him since he cannot  put her down from the pedestal!!. 
> On the other hand if she did find a guy who would treat her in a derogatory
> manner  at least if not all the time , some time, then the relation  is liabel
> to go sour, since she would have the trauma of feeling  that she has lost "it"
> whatever "it" is in a woman's lingo. 

Uh, excuse me, but why are there only two possibilities here?

	1) pedeastal

	2) treated in a derogatory manner

What about being treated as an equal, as a human being?

Looks to me like you're discussing the angel/whore division of camps in the How
to Handle Women debate.  Surprise!  Women are people!  Treat people like people!

> It is possible that several theories may be tested out if one merely watches
> and sees how she is going to turn out in her life, Anybody interested? 

No.  Generalizing about my life based on the follies of public figures has
little appeal (no, no, really, I only buy the enquirer-type-rags when they have
pictures of computers on the covers!).

L S Chabot
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