ag5@pucc-k (Henry Mensch) (01/02/85)
<<>> Indeed. The dishonesty of this sort of stuff *does* bother me. As I indicated in my most recent item on this topic: >> Indeed, this is a problem which gay people face. Right now >>I'm seeing someone whom I thought would be a good friend (this hasn't >>changed); she seems to have other ideas about the relationship... >>Something to look forward to when school starts :-(. I had assumed that people would understand from this that I did not intend for this to happen and would rectify it. As for how honest this is, this particular kind of situation happens with two straights also. One thinks that the relationship is more than it is, and proceeds from there. Often there are hurt feelings based on an early presumption. Only when the gay people encourage these relationships and lead the straights on is when there is dishonesty. N.B. -- Noting the results of nsc!chuqui's survey of {net|mod}. singles readers, I ask that everyone continue this discussion in net.social (only) where this topic is more appropriate. Thanks! -- ------------------------------------------------------------------- Henry C. Mensch | User Confuser | Purdue University User Services {ihnp4|decvax|ucbvax|purdue|uiucdcs|cbosgd|harpo}!pur-ee!pucc-i!ag5 ------------------------------------------------------------------- "If you can't be good, be careful. If you can't be careful, give me a call..."