bjob@alice.UucP (Barbara J. Orlando-Bimmler) (02/28/86)
> > Andrew Fine wishes: > > > > > Best of luck, Gary. Tell us all how it works out. > > > > I say, "No, thanks." We really don't care. Hell, we don't even know > > the guy's name! How does Ansuk expect us to feel sympathy for him? > ^^^^^^^^^^^ > and I suppose you want his address, phone number, social security > number and date of birth also. Give me a break! I don't want to talk to him, I'd just like some evidence he's real. This whole things smacks distinctly like an attention-getting ploy generated by you to bolster your sagging self-image. Well, I'm sorry to say that net.suicide is *not* the place to appeal for sympathy. Try net.poems. BJO-B
gerber@mit-amt.MIT.EDU (Andrew S. Gerber) (03/01/86)
In article <5050@alice.uUCp> bjob@alice.UucP (Barbara J. Orlando-Bimmler) writes: >> > Andrew Fine wishes: >> > >> > > Best of luck, Gary. Tell us all how it works out. >> > >> > I say, "No, thanks." We really don't care. Hell, we don't even know >> > the guy's name! How does Ansuk expect us to feel sympathy for him? >> ^^^^^^^^^^^ >> and I suppose you want his address, phone number, social security >> number and date of birth also. Give me a break! > >I don't want to talk to him, I'd just like some evidence he's real. >This whole things smacks distinctly like an attention-getting ploy >generated by you to bolster your sagging self-image. Well, I'm sorry >to say that net.suicide is *not* the place to appeal for sympathy. >Try net.poems. > BJO-B BJO-B, your reply sounds like an attention-getting ploy so everyone can see what a callous jerk you are. If you can't say something nice about someone's request for sympathy, say nothing. If someone wants sympathy, and you don't want to give it, then SHUT UP. Don't make them feel worse. I think the posting was legit. I didn't have anything useful to say about it, so I didn't reply. I think YOU should have done the same! -- +-----------------------------------------------------------------------------+ | Andrew S. Gerber MIT '87 Visible Language Workshop | | gerber@mit-amt.MIT.EDU, gerber@mit-mc.lcs.mit.edu, gerber@athena.mit.edu | | UUCP: decvax!mit-eddie!mit-amt!gerber decvax!mit-eddie!mit-athena!gerber | +-----------------------------------------------------------------------------+
simsong@mit-amt.MIT.EDU (Simson L. Garfinkel) (03/01/86)
In article <5050@alice.uUCp> bjob@alice.UucP (Barbara J. Orlando-Bimmler) writes: >I don't want to talk to him, I'd just like some evidence he's real. >This whole things smacks distinctly like an attention-getting ploy >generated by you to bolster your sagging self-image. Well, I'm sorry >to say that net.suicide is *not* the place to appeal for sympathy. >Try net.poems. > BJO-B Barbara, How do you validate that somebody is real? If I was to create a user named "nemesis" on mit-amt, create a finger entry with the name Barbara J. Orlando-Bimmler, give nemesis an address, a phone number (which you could call and get somebody who would happily take a message for Barbara), a date of birth and a brief life history, would that make nemesis@mit-amt a "real" person? For that matter, how do you know that I am a "real" person? How do I know that you are? And does it really make a difference? Let's try to keep the discussion on net.suicide off of these meta-issues. I'm sure that there are plenty of people who have considered suicide in their lives -- quite a few of these people have attempted, less of them have been successful. If you speak to people who have considered suicide but not followed through, most of them feel that they are better off for not having killed themselves, but some do feel otherwise. It's been said that suicide is an appeal for sympathy, a cry for help. Although I don't believe that this is in fact the governing motive in all cases, I am sure that it is sometimes. If so, then an appeal to "net.suicide" which you consider to be an "appeal for sympathy" is the first step in kind to an actual suicide attempt. Or something like that.